"...this father-friend who liked to show me the shape I would become rather than cutting my edges so I could fit a preferred cast more to his liking since it seemed what he liked best was to recognize native clay solid in its mystery and observe how its wonder was synecdoche for the indescribable majesty of its being observed by someone.
Hard to believe he will no longer age as I continue changing growing strange to whatever I once was.
But he’s growing still as something like light in me and my family and as I feel tossed lightly and dropped suddenly living as we all do like a dinghy in a vast sea I know there’s a point I can steer toward since his life will be my lighthouse
so that I’ll always know how to go home."
--An excerpt from the truly wonderful eulogy to his father Chris Wetherell posted on his blog last week.